tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31764274157348328332024-03-12T21:58:41.418-07:00Baha'i Educationa personal reflection on the Baha'i writings and general educationUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-46721194393967284532012-03-30T14:59:00.000-07:002012-03-30T14:59:39.741-07:00Bullying in All Forms<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
In my other blog "Mining Gems" (http://marksalata.blogspot.com/2012/03/bully-or-assault-or-is-it-more.html), I state simply that the issue of bullying is one of virtues - or specifically the lack of educating one about their innate seed of virtues within.<br />
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For this blog, I'd like to consider what constitutes bullying and how a Baha'i education might address them. We all can easily have a vision of bullying that involves physical and/or verbal attacks, but what is <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullying">bullying</a>? It can come in the form of sexism, racism, and many other detrimental -isms that attack the "other" person. It is a way to make distinctions ugly and reflect some odd beauty or higher station of the bully above the "other". It brings with it a satisfaction of (ill-gotten) empowerment and attention.<br />
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Contrast this with the words from the Baha'i writings...<br />
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Consider the flowers of the rose garden. Although they are of different kinds, various colors and diverse forms and appearances, yet as they drink from one water, are swayed by one breeze and grow by the warmth and light of one sun, this variation and this difference cause each to enhance the beauty and splendor of the others. The differences in manners, in customs, in habits, in thoughts, opinions and in temperaments is the cause of the adornment of the world of mankind. This is praiseworthy. Likewise this difference and this variation, like the difference and variation of the parts and members of the human body, are the cause of the appearance of beauty and perfection. As these different parts and members are under the control of the dominant spirit, and the spirit permeates all the organs and members, and rules all the arteries and veins, this difference and this variation strengthen love and harmony and this multiplicity is the greatest aid to unity.<br />
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(Abdu'l-Baha, Baha'i World Faith - Abdu'l-Baha Section, p. 295)<br />
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If the view that differences are not only beautiful but "strengthen love and harmony and this multiplicity is the greatest aid to unity" is taught early and often in words and deed, then an essential context that supports bullying behavior is destroyed. Now, do I naively think that reciting the above words and similar words will remove bullying behavior completely? No. These words must be shown in action by adults modeling them in everyday life with children, role-playing scenarios with children with thoughtful reflection, and teachable moments at the earliest stages of life must be taken advantage of.<br />
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We too often allow soul-damaging behaviors to occur by stating that "boys will be boys" or some similar impotent excuse. We must balance the line between playful behavior and disrespecting behavior, but I think we tend to give too much leeway and allow disrespect to be a normal activity for children.<br />
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One other thought, why would backbiting be considered a most great sin in the Baha'i scripture?<br />
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Backbiting is listed right up there with murder! Interesting, yes? Backbiting is also a form of bullying.<br />
Perhaps it is in words that we allow girls to bully more so than boys, since physical bullying is allowed for them. I encourage you to reflect on how, as parents and teachers, we teach this particular lesson. How many teachable moments are we missing when backbiting is occurs and it is thought of as a harmless behavior?<br />
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Lastly, imagine youth that are raised to consider themselves with the potential to be brilliant stars. With that as their frame, it is easier to lovingly teach when they make mistakes. Mistakes in word and action are opportunities for growth and a caring parent or teacher will not react with superfluous disappointment but with a diligent and tempered view that this sapling requires just a bit of support and trimming ;-). Let's help them from when they are very young and not wait until they are teenagers.<br />
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<br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-26801917170162277612012-01-05T15:23:00.000-08:002012-01-13T13:08:57.199-08:00"The newly born babe..."<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
"The newly born babe of that Day excels the wisest and most venerable men of this time, and the lowliest and most unlearned of that period shall surpass in understanding the most erudite and accomplished divines of this age...." - The Bab, quoted in "The Dawn-Breakers: Nabil's Narrative of the Early Days of the Baha'i Revelation, p.65<br />
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Several questions come to mind when reading this quote. What level of understanding should we expect from today's generation? What was the level of understanding of the 'most erudite and accomplished divines of' the past age? In what manner and content does the newly born babe excel?<br />
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Perhaps, the newly born babe's excellence comes from at least two things, so many new things being made known to humanity since that time both materially and spiritually and a greater collective thinking that propels the individual's excellence beyond what an individual can achieve.<br />
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The material developments over the past 168 years must be considered phenomenal. Consider the vast technological advances since the mid to late 1800s. To be able to travel from one side of the Earth to the other in less than 24 hours was unfathomable. The <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel_Morse#Federal_support">earliest message</a> sent by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel_Morse">Samuel Morse</a> via cable in 1844 was <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Numbers+23%3A23&version=KJV">"What hath God wrought"</a> and it only travelled from <a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?client=safari&rls=en&oe=UTF-8&um=1&ie=UTF-8&gl=us&saddr=baltimore,+MD&daddr=Washington,+DC&dirflg=d&geocode=KbeD9NauA8iJMVjnI0KolkgE;KVvk9lrexreJMSpdiNQiRVLC&ei=8r4FT4jrGsyFsgLB3K2QCg&sa=X&oi=geocode_result&ct=image&resnum=1&ved=0CC0Q-A8wAA">Baltimore, MD to Washington, D.C.</a> And now, not only could you call someone on the other side of the Earth and hear their voice without delay by phone - you can do this with a device found in your pocket, untethered. You can even be reading this blog on that same device. It can also be used to give you the best driving route from Baltimore, MD to Washington, D.C. Oh yes, in 1844 automobiles were only a dream.<br />
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Spiritually, we have come from being isolated in our own familial religious history to having the potential to being knowledgable about religion in all forms. Information about and contact, through direct and indirect means, with followers of all religions is readily available. The opportunity for individual investigation of truth is upon us in an astounding way. The dogma of others dictating one's spiritual actions (clergy) has been broken - even within those religious traditions in which it was most strong. This spiritual transformation has been shaped by new revelations from God and by the pace at which the material world has developed. The material can have a great impact (positively and negatively) on our collective spiritual progress.<br />
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Consider how fragmented society was in time and place prior to today. To provide two examples, only 26 of the 50 states that make up the United States were created by 1844. The rest were, at best, territories of the U.S. The <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mexican_Cession">Mexican Cession</a> didn't occur until 1848. The United States was fragmented and the scope of one's travels correlated strongly with one's religious exposure. As a second example, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Italy">Italy wasn't united until 1861</a>. The present formation of nations is a recent phenomenon. Not until stable nation-states and transportation systems that went beyond one's own ethnic and religious experience could we begin, as a whole, to learn from one another and put together the pieces of this grand covenant between humanity and God.<br />
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Imagine how the quote "The Earth is but one country and mankind its citizens." would have been received at that time? It is an astounding declaration given the division of humanity along national, ethnic, and familial lines. Many of us take such a declaration as an assumption of modern society, even though not all agree with its implications for political and religious aspects of humanity. The first gathering of followers of many religions to promote greater understanding didn't occur until 1893 in Chicago. It was the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parliament_of_the_World's_Religions">Parliament of the World's Religions</a>.<br />
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Over the past 168 years, humanity has connected its separate communities to form an even greater worldwide community. It is still fragmented in many ways; however, even the "most erudite and accomplished divines of" the past would find it difficult to envision the world as it is today - in terms of transportation, commerce, communication, and many other aspects.<br />
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So, what does this grand transformation mean to that "newly born babe" of today. She has opportunities to understand many more things at an earlier age than others did in the past. She has the opportunity to harness those gems within to help others in far away places to do the same. The plight of others in a far corner of the world can be learned of very quickly and she can apply creative solutions by leveraging social tools only available within the past ten years. She can benefit reciprocally from that interaction as well. It is not merely those well off providing funds to those with less. It is about making this world new.<br />
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If only we consider education outside of the 19th century manufacturing model and modernize it in line with the knowledge and understanding of today's spiritual gifts, then, and only then, will we be able to roll out a new world before our very eyes. What part will you play to deepen your understanding of what it means to facilitate those newly born babes to meet their potential?<br />
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<br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-38644817753434212962011-09-29T13:25:00.000-07:002011-09-29T13:26:10.229-07:00Competition Against the Self<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
When we use competition against another person to improve ourselves, we can make great gains athletically and mentally. Competition against the other is a strong theme in the United States culture. We use references to battles, wars, and fights to spur our development off of the real battlefield. Our school mascots are a variety of warrior symbols and predators. Survival of the fittest in the worst perversion of Darwin's most elegant idea is applied to our children and each other.<br />
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We are at the same time improved by this competition and denigrated to our base material selves. By constantly keeping our eyes and mind on what the other is, we are losing our sense of self, our true selves.
I am not proposing that we remove competition with others from our culture. However, I am proposing that we recognize its limitations and that it is used too often.<br />
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Some will encourage a child to 'be the best you can be', but then follow that be encouraging the child to compare him or herself to another child not only as an exemplar but as a form to become. We don't even recognize that the two concepts are fundamentally in conflict. If I am to be the best that I can be, then I should utilize the exemplar to consider my current station and reflect on my being and compete against the self.<br />
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Each day is a chance to learn more about my current station, see inward and challenge myself to improve, a little at a time. If I recognize that within me is great potential, those myriad of gems, then I can take it upon myself to cut them, to polish them and make the best me I can be. So, I encourage students to be reflective at times and challenge themselves to improve against the self and not against the other. Therefore, how should the home and school encourage such development and actions? I leave that to you.<br />
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"Upon the inmost reality of each and every created thing He hath shed the light of one of His names, and made it a recipient of the glory of one of His attributes. Upon the reality of man, however, He hath focused the radiance of all of His names and attributes, and made it a mirror of His own Self. Alone of all created things man hath been singled out for so great a favor, so enduring a bounty."<br />
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"Through the Teachings of this Day Star of Truth every man will advance and develop until he attaineth the station at which he can manifest all the potential forces with which his inmost true self hath been endowed."<br />
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(Both are from Baha'u'llah, you can read the full text here --> <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/GWB/GWB-27.html">Gleanings</a> )</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-61592414452444517902011-07-21T16:41:00.000-07:002011-07-21T16:41:53.643-07:00Learning Objectives of Life<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">From time to time, I contemplate the learning objectives of a lesson or activity. They tend to be most easily filled with simple concepts that we call facts. The learning objectives of an entire course of study end up being encyclopedic tomes that, though impressive, can be satisfying to the intellect but a disappointment to the soul.<br />
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I have for the last several years been developing a instructional framework that I call the Mining Gems Model. You can read more about it here --> <a href="http://marksalata.blogspot.com/2011/05/john-hunter-exemplifying-mining-gems.html">HERE</a>, but the part I want to mention that is its keystone, if you will, is virtues. This isn't just my opinion, but teachers and parents who have attended a seminar or workshop of mine have been drawn to that part of the model. They agree with the profound, yet simple, quote from Abdu'l-Baha that states, "Every child is potentially the light of the world--and at the same time its darkness." The full context of the quote can be found here ---> <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/SAB/SAB-103.html">HERE</a>. Abdu'l-Baha also stated, "Training in morals and good conduct is far more important than book learning. A child that is cleanly, agreeable, of good character, well-behaved - even though he be ignorant - is preferable to a child that is rude, unwashed, ill-natured, and yet becoming deeply versed in all the science and arts. The reason for this is that the child who conducts himself well, even though he be ignorant, is of benefit to others, while an ill-natured, ill-behaved child is corrupted and harmful to others, even though he be learned. If, however, the child be trained to be both learned and good, the result is light upon light."<br />
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And it is with this that I meditate on the question, "What are our life's learning objectives?" It is to absorb encyclopedic information in order to pass an exam? Is it to receive high marks, to earn a high income, to own many things?<br />
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Well, perhaps here is one quote to start the conversation with...<br />
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"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 5px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 5px; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;">All men have been created to <b><i>carry forward an ever-advancing civilization</i></b>. The Almighty beareth Me witness: To act like the beasts of the field is unworthy of man. Those virtues that befit his dignity are forbearance, mercy, compassion and loving-kindness towards all the peoples and kindreds of the earth. Say: O friends! Drink your fill from this crystal stream that floweth through the heavenly grace of Him Who is the Lord of Names. Let others partake of its waters in My name, that the leaders of men in every land may fully recognize the purpose for which the Eternal Truth hath been revealed, and the reason for which they themselves have been created.</span>" - Baha'u'llah (emphasis added)<br />
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How do we empower students to 'carry forward an ever-advancing civilization'? I propose that lessons need to have two, intertwined parts. One part of the lesson contributes to gaining subject knowledge and understanding, while the second part contributes to the growth of the child's virtues. At times virtues are taught by example, while at other times virtues are the explicit objective of the lesson itself.<br />
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</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-63168682041183457622011-07-15T11:16:00.000-07:002011-07-15T11:16:42.655-07:00Model of BehaviorAs a parent I am aware, not all of the time, of my behavior when in the presence of my child. What I do and what I say will alter her reality, her understanding, and her ability to express virtues in this world. I fail at times and sometimes I succeed in small measure. I don't ponder this to a level of immobilization or fear, but I check myself from time to time and many times ask, "Did she just replicate what I do?" And my response to that question is either "Oh no." or "That's nice."<br />
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I wonder however, when parents start having difficulties with a child's behavior do they analyze themselves, their home environment, their words and deeds and ask, "How might these things contribute to reinforcing my child's undesirable behaviors and how they might contribute to reinforcing his/her desirable behaviors?"<br />
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If my child acts out inappropriately, then have I displayed that behavior as an adult? Have I given permission, by deed, that acting out is commendable? Do I expect respect, when the subtle actions I have with my child deem respecting them as unworthy of my time?<br />
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Please don't misunderstand me, I don't agree with the idea that my child is above me and should be treated as a spoiled princess having all things done for her at a moment's notice. I do think though that she has a noble station and if I can show her respect by acknowledging her interests by commenting on a drawing as she requests, "Daddy, take a look at this" and just giving into the shared moment, then I will do it. Also, I will respect her by asking her to wait patiently when I cannot be interrupted and then following through with recognizing her use of the virtue of patience when I am ready. <br />
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When she was younger, the time period she could wait without being frustrated was short but over time I have reinforced the display of patience from one minute to now many minutes. This is one example of applying patience and caring. Do I always excel at this? No. But I try to remind myself of my nobel nature and her's and the power of another virtue used so little by ourselves, for ourselves - forgiveness.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-79191949372474248262011-01-20T23:07:00.000-08:002011-01-20T23:07:02.909-08:00A Woman's Place - Respect Begins Early<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A woman's place is...(you finish the statement). </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #20124d;">"The emancipation of women, the achievement of full equality between the sexes, is one of the most important, though less acknowledged prerequisites of peace. The denial of such equality perpetrates an injustice against one half of the world's population and promotes in men harmful attitudes and habits that are carried from the family to the workplace, to political life, and ultimately to international relations. There are no grounds, moral, practical, or biological, upon which such denial can be justified. Only as women are welcomed into full partnership in all fields of human endeavor will the moral and psychological climate be created in which international peace can emerge."</span></i></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For a child to develop this simple way of showing respect, the parents need to model it. By using these words from parent to parent and from parent to child, we create a normal pattern of respect for all. Now, interestingly, many of us miss our opportunities to use these words. Humbling oneself by asking 'please' and showing gratitude for the smallest of things may not be in our own normal pattern of behavior. Family members may take each other's actions for granted and conversations may be stripped of these foundational words.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Begin, if you don't already, recognizing how often you use these words with your spouse or loved one. Use them with your children and kindly encourage them to use them with you. If your child asks for something without ending or beginning with 'please', then, with a kind tone, ask, "and...." Give them opportunities without reminding them. Choose when you remind them wisely. When they are quite young, a toddler, it can be more often. As they get older, less often. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Never respond to a child that demands or orders something from you. You'll know when their tone is inappropriate or not respectful. Of course, with children they need to learn that the tone is inappropriate, so this is your moment to kindly teach them. But how might you teach them? Let's consider these words from Abdu'l-Baha...</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">How does this apply to your own child? I do not think that this means we should use the teachable moment and make light of it and smile. Perhaps, we merely shouldn't make it heavy, as if the world crashed down on his/her shoulders. Step-by-step, 'please'-by-'thank you' - respect for family, respect for others, and respect for self begins.</span><br />
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Of course, based on percentage that may not seem too bad; however, per capita spending on education for the US was US$1,780 (a ranking of second) and Norway was number one at US$2,850.<br />
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Another factor to consider about US school funding, is the US system itself - or lack thereof. There is no coordinated national school system in the US. We have 50 state systems and within those there are many more school district systems. If a child leaves one school to go to another, then there is no guarantee that she will have the same subject classes or be needing remedial lessons or be far ahead of her new classmates. This diversity can be a strength; however, we tend not to take advantage of learning from what works and what doesn't within this mixed experiment. Do you think there may be some waste of funds through redundancy?<br />
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In 1996, a set of <a href="http://www.nap.edu/openbook.php?record_id=4962">National Science Education Standards</a> were created by the National Academy of Sciences. It was, and is, a good framework for a science curriculum. Take a look at them and especially read how they frame the pedagogy for science - inquiry and process have great importance. They were not written to be a prescriptive, day-by-day lesson plan. Soon after the NSES were created, states started making their own standards (or altering what they already had) to sometimes reflect the NSES, sometimes expand on the NSES, and/or deviate greatly from the NSES. How much did it cost to create those state standards? We still have 50 states with separate science standards and we even have many school districts with district specific standards!<br />
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Regardless of the exact amount we spend towards students learning, we do a poor job of distributing the funding we put towards education in a just manner. I use the word 'just' and not 'equal' on purpose. A just educational system would lend to providing every student an opportunity to explore and empower themselves according to his/her effort and strengths. I do not envision a system that is the same for every child, where on day 56 of kindergarten each learns letter 'R', etc. Each child, as noted in an earlier posting, has gems within and our job is to help them recognize those gems, polish them, and serve humanity.<br />
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From the often quoted scripture from Baha'u'llah's Hidden Words..."O Son of Spirit! The best beloved of all things in My sight is Justice; turn not away therefrom if thou desirest Me, and neglect it not that I may confide in thee. By its aid thou shalt see with thine own eyes and not through the eyes of others, and shalt know of thine own knowledge and not through the knowledge of thy neighbor. Ponder this in thy heart; how it behooveth thee to be. Verily justice is My gift to thee and the sign of My loving-kindness. Set it then before thine eyes."<br />
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Now, if we consider the education of all children, worldwide, then we have much to reflect on in terms of justice. Do we consider a nation spending US$5 per capita on education (<a href="http://www.oclc.org/reports/escan/economic/educationlibraryspending.htm">Uganda</a>) reasonable? Is the spending of <a href="http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/edu_edu_spe-education-spending-of-gdp">1.8% of GDP (2000-2002) by Pakistan</a> justice? How many gems are going unfound and not being brought to the surface in a resplendent light? Can our future afford such lack of investment?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-58197932800168568262010-08-09T11:38:00.001-07:002010-08-09T11:38:52.437-07:00Is whining really 'normal' for a 5 year old?I was visiting a local farmer's market and took in the following scene...<br />
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A mother was shopping for some dresses for her two girls (both approximately 5 years<br />
old) and their grandmother was in attendance as well. One of the girls really liked a particular<br />
dress due to its color. Her mother ignored her interest because it was clearly a large dress labelled<br />
8 on the tag (for an eight year old). The mother moved to another rack of dresses, while the daughter insisted on getting the mother's attention. First she told her mother. "Mommy, I want this dress."<br />
The mother ignored her, while the grandmother tried to point out other dresses (without explaining that the dress she wanted wouldn't fit her). The child increased the drama by whining, "But I want this dress!" and making noises that showed her distress. After about three minutes of, "Ahhhh, ohhhh..." from the child, the mother came around and frustrated by the whining told her to, "Stop it!" and proceeded to bring the child over to the dresses that would fit her. Again, none of the adults explained to the child that the dress she wanted was too large.<br />
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I suppose that, to an adult, it was obvious that it was too large or that it was trivial to take the minute or two to explain that the dress wouldn't fit. But, in my mind, neither of these are acceptable. The child wasn't respected at all. In fact, the adults in the situation seemed to rather ignore an opportunity to talk with the child and preferred to distract, much like one might with a younger child, or have a confrontation.<br />
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In less time than it took to have a dramatic conclusion (and wasted emotions), the adults could have said, "That's a beautiful dress. What do you like about it?" Then they could have taken it off of the rack and showed her that it wouldn't fit (and empathizing with the child's disappointment, somewhat). Then stating, "Let's see if we can find another dress that has ______, but in your size." That dialogue could have happened prior to the whining - if the adults were observant and sensitive to the presence of another human being (though smaller in stature).<br />
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What to do if the adult was too late and the child immediately began to whine? Address the behavior separate from the child and ask, "Instead of whining, what words can you use to get my attention that are kind?" By the way, when you ask this question (and many other ones), ask it from the child's eye level in a comforting way (as opposed from on high and with a voice of condescension).<br />
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To answer the question in the title. I think whining is normal when being ignored or not having developed an alternative that works. It is our task, as adults (and sometimes we whine as well), to recognize that whining isn't who the child is and definitely isn't acceptable as a regular form of communication. Will even the best of children whine from time to time, of course, but the less we consider it as normal (and if we positively promote more successful alternatives for everyone involved) the less it will happen. One more thing - if your child is tired (missed a nap, didn't sleep well the night before), just like any adult who hasn't slept well, be prepared for 'odd' behavior such as whining and crying at a moment's notice.<br />
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"The instruction of these children is even as the work of a loving gardener who tendeth his young plants in the flowering fields of the All-Glorious." - Abdu'l-Baha<br />
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Feel free to share your stories...Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-48125894279932361482010-05-24T18:36:00.000-07:002010-05-24T18:36:19.084-07:00Knowledge and Social ChangeIt is during the holiday of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ridv%C3%A1n">Ridvan</a> and the weeks that follow that brings a certain reflection on the days, weeks, and year ahead. We have a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bah%C3%A1'%C3%AD_Naw-R%C3%BAz">Baha'i New Year</a> and other holidays as well for similar reflection, but with Ridvan a message from the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/UHJ">UHJ</a> is sent around the world. It is an excerpt from that message that I bring to you today to contemplate the needs and requirements for education today. As you read it, I ask you to consider if today's schools and school systems are prepared to provide an appropriate environment (one of many that impact an individual's growth and development) for improving the conditions of today's world.<div><br />
</div><div>"Access to knowledge is the right of every human being, and participation in its generation, application and diffusion a responsibility that all must shoulder in the great enterprise of building a prosperous world civilization - each individual according to his or her talents and abilities. Justice demands universal participation. Thus, while social action may involve the provision of goods and services in some form, its primary concern must be to build capacity within a given population to participate in creating a better world. Social change is not a project that one group of people carries out for the benefit of another. The scope and complexity of social action must be commensurate with the human resources available in a village or neighborhood to carry it forward. Efforts best begin, then, on a modest scale and grow organically as capacity within the population develops. Capacity rises to new levels, of course, as the protagonists of social change learn to apply with increasing effectiveness elements of <a href="http://info.bahai.org/bahaullah-basic-teachings.html">Baha'u'llah's Revelation</a>, together with the contents and methods of science, to their social reality. This reality they must strive to read in a manner consistent with His teachings - seeing in their fellow human beings gems of inestimable value and recognizing the effects of the dual process of integration and disintegration on both hearts and minds, as well as on social structures."</div><div><br />
</div><div>When reading through this myself, I contemplate the educational framework that is typically utilized (grade system - K-12 or similar designations for primary and secondary levels) and I ask, "Are we building a capacity for social change with the students?" "Are the children being prepared to be the adults necessary for transforming this world for the better?" Or, are we preparing them for a world that has already past with subtle substitutions?</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-79218611262327365782010-04-29T09:21:00.000-07:002010-04-29T09:21:11.287-07:00A Child's Patience and the MarshmallowIn a classic experiment, researchers found a strong correlation between a child's ability to delay gratification and his/her success in life (as defined in many ways). In the most loving manner, patience teaches one more than the ability be quiet while waiting. Take a look at the following two videos...<br />
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and, last but not least, this one reminds me of the children in the video most (though a marshmallow test is not so dire)...<br />
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"...God will add unto the recompense with which He shall reward Us, for having sustained with persevering patience the tribulations We have suffered. He, verily, shall increase the reward of them that endure with patience." (<a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/GWB/GWB-66.html">Baha'u'llah</a>)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-16374812213225362152010-03-05T11:36:00.000-08:002012-03-30T15:10:55.449-07:00Raising Baha'is (without brattiness)...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
This posting is to provide you with some of the many Baha'i writings that can apply to raising children in line with Baha'i principles. One caveat, as an individual I can only provide my interpretation and emphasis concerning these writings. You may take something more or less from each quote concerning raising children - so, you have been warned. :-)<br />
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One source of useful advice comes from a book titled, "Mothers, Fathers and Children" by A. Furutan. He uses several Baha'i quotes to frame his advice and does a good job using simple language and clear logic to justify it. For those of you not familiar with him, you can check out this link --- <a href="http://www.furutanacademy.org/mod/resource/view.php?id=24">A. Furutan</a>. He begins his book with a chapter titled, "Six Educational Counsels".<br />
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To open this chapter he quotes Abdu'l-Baha, "<i>According to the teachings of Baha'u'llah, the family being a human unit must be educated according to the rules of sanctity. </i><a href="http://info.bahai.org/article-1-7-6-5.html"><i>All the virtues must be taught the family.</i></a>"<br />
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The first is 'The Necessity of Agreement between Parents' and he quotes Baha'u'llah, "<i>Ye were created to show love to one another and not perversity and rancor</i>." This provides consistency, let alone relative peace.<br />
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The second is 'The Childhood Years and the Force of Habit' and he quotes Abdu'l-Baha, "<i>It is extremely difficult to teach the individual and refine his character once puberty is passed. By then, as experience hath shown, even if every effort be exerted to modify some tendency of his, it all availeth nothing. He may, perhaps, improve somewhat today; but let a few days pass and he forgetteth, and turneth backward to his habitual condition and accustomed ways. Therefore it is in early childhood that a firm foundation must be laid. While the branch is green and tender it can easily be made straight.</i>" This is one reason why we have started what we call a <a href="http://www.mininggems.org/index.html">Virtues Playgroup</a> with children ages 4-6. It is wonderful to have children who understand (in their own way) what perseverance and unity mean in word and deed (among others).<br />
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The third is 'Parents' Words and Deeds are Children's Examples' and he quotes Baha'u'llah, "<i>Take heed, O people, lest ye be of them that give good counsel to others but forget to follow it themselves."</i> Children have a set of neurons (as do adults) that are highly active and remarkable. They are called mirror neurons. We have empathy and develop it (and other virtues) through mirroring other's actions. Being respectful of a child's emotion by listening and encouraging them to verbalize, as opposed to ignoring and teaching them that tantrums are the best way to get attention, can be quite helpful at times. This doesn't mean have a lengthy argument or engage in a discussion for all things, but adults tend to write off a child's emotion and miss an opportunity to teach the child that the emotion is reasonable and teach them how to utilize that emotion for the better.<br />
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The fourth is 'Self-Control' and he quotes Abdu'l-Baha, "<i>The individual must be educated to such a high degree that he...would think it easier to be slashed with a sword or pierced with a spear than to utter calumny or be carried away by wrath."</i> How many times as adults have we said something that we regret or, worse yet, don't recognize that we should regret it because it causes division and pain? This counsel is strongly linked to the third one mentioned above. In the end, of course, the virtue of forgiveness is our saving grace when self-control fails.<br />
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The fifth is 'Keeping Promises Made to Children' and he quotes Baha'u'llah, "<i>Trustworthiness is the greatest portal leading unto the tranquility and security of the people. In truth the stability of every affair hath depended and doth depend upon it.</i>" What a lesson to be learned at such a young age and such rewards to be gained when applied as adults.<br />
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The sixth is 'The Effects of Deceit on Children' and he quotes Abdu'l-Baha, "<i>Truthfulness is the foundation of all virtues of the world of humanity. Without truthfulness, progress and success in all the worlds of God are impossible for a soul. When this holy attribute is established in man, all the divine qualities will also become realized."</i> He relates a story where a mother took a son to a movie, while leaving the daughter at home. In order to not upset the daughter, the mother tells her falsely that she's taking the son to the dentist and hides the fact of taking him to the movies. Once returned home, the daughter pretends to be asleep in her room and the mother tells the father of the trip to the movies with her son. The daughter is, to say the least, disappointed.<br />
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With this brief overview, I hope that you can take away some new ideas (or at least quotes). The rest of the book is quite good and I recommend that you take a look. Looking forward to your thoughts.<br />
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Also, I do not think that I have the answers to raising everyone's children. <br />
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With that written, I am shocked by how many people, in general (in or out of the Baha'i community), conduct either laissez-faire or dictatorial styles of parenting. Both extremes result in a strange brew that leads to behaviors and understandings in a child that aren't quite useful for themselves or society. <br />
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A laissez-faire style leads to a child that does anything and everything, has little or no social graces, and finds disorder to be normal. A dictatorial style leads a child to have limited personal growth in as far as setting boundaries for themselves and the natural inclination for the fire of creativity (among other things) is doused.<br />
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A child needs love, trust, and respect (much like anyone else). However, a loving parent who allows the child to do nearly anything isn't providing a framework where the child will be safe. Once a child is of a certain age (2-3), communicating in a loving manner what is and is not expected of them begins to build respect and trust in the relationship. That communication comes from the parent, but it is also important for the parent to allow the child to share their emotions and thoughts, to a certain extent, such that they feel heard. "I understand that you like jumping up and down on the couch because it is fun, but you can slip and hurt yourself. Here are two other things you can do (A &B), which do you you want to do?" A few things that parents may do that can be helpful are:<br />
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1. Label the behavior, not the child.<br />
I have witnessed communications from a parent and a child that would be considered rude and unruly if said to another adult. Demeaning the child's soul is not the role of a parent, rather the role is to provide boundaries that allow for personal growth. A child is not always 'shy', always 'rude', or always anything - unless the parent reinforces it by name calling (including being called a 'brat').<br />
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2. Tightly connect (in time) consequences to behavior/words<br />
If a child does something that is disrespectful, then at which moment do you attend to it? As soon as humanly possible! Connect the action to discussion and the consequence, so that the message is clear. I have heard of some experts recommending that one must provide children with all of the options possible and let them choose. In this way, the child's inner being will develop as intended and without harm from parental influences. This is ridiculous when taken to an extreme. Parental influence can be a good thing!<br />
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3. Listen to and try to understand the child<br />
Some parents don't try to understand the source of the child's emotion or thoughts. Granted, it is difficult at times to do this, but it will reap benefits. Listening and being respectful to the child is modeling the behavior you expect from him/her. How many adults are frustrated with each other due to simple misunderstanding? Now, make one of those adults into a child whose vocabulary is much less and you'll end up with screaming and tantrums (even some adults continue to do this because they didn't learn how to recognize their emotion and use it wisely).<br />
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4. Be Consistent<br />
Nothing damages a good framework of trust, respect, and love more than inconsistency. It isn't easy to always be consistent, but try to be consistent about the most fundamental things. Certain behaviors are never to be tolerated and the consequence should be well known by both parent and child, and followed through.<br />
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Well, with those four to think about I add one more thing...<br />
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5. Balance<br />
Choose your 'battles' wisely. You alone need to identify what is significant and what is not. Sometimes, just like adults, the child needs to share his/her feelings and not have a solution. They need to be heard and understood. Neither the laissez-faire or dictatorial parent will find balance, nor peace.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-62183637974007414212010-02-24T12:55:00.000-08:002010-02-24T14:23:44.262-08:00Failing Schools, Failing Teachers?What to do when a school is by many standards failing? Fire the teachers and start anew, so goes the story in a Rhode Island school (click <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2010/US/02/24/rhode.island.teachers/index.html">HERE</a> to read more). The details of any similar story are difficult to get, since most reporting is slim at best. I have heard from teachers that a school has its own history, its own reputation. Some schools are known to be less academically successful and the culture of this knowledge is repeated again and again. I have also read reports where students are put into two groups, one where they are told that they are gifted and another where they are told they are inferior. In which group do you think they were more successful (no matter what their socioeconomic background)?<br />
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Factors that can alter a students chances of success, among several, are:<br />
1. A teacher's subject content knowledge. This knowledge must include a depth of knowledge that can allow for creative ways to connect subject content to other areas of interest. They must know enough to be able to ask questions that lead to students piecing together knowledge into an overall understanding of reality.<br />
2. A teacher's pedagogical content knowledge. Knowing when and how to weave a tapestry of content and processes together for students is key to reaching all students of various interests and skill levels.<br />
3. A teacher's expectations. Having high expectations for all students and the patience and leadership to empower students to have high expectations for themselves.<br />
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I am not claiming that the move to fire the teachers was right or wrong, there are too many questions I need answered to settle my mind. The utmost importance of education, as supported by all in the community (teachers, parents, administrators, businesses, etc.), is given as a platitude more often than a sincere statement. Politicians include it as a campaign slogan (always reinforcing the idea that schools are in need of drastic repair regardless of their status). The general populace wants a good education for all, but the current system of funding typically tilts the support towards affluent communities. There is even the idea that more funding for schools would be useless, since the system is claimed to be beyond repair and taxes in the US never make people spring into a joyful dance. Of course, taxes for more jails might be considered and even wanted so as to be tough on crime.<br />
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No matter what the decisions we make to 'correct' a failing school, I'd hope that our individual and collective actions would align with the following sentiments...<br />
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<a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1267039849464">"The education and training of children is among the most meritorious acts of humankind and draweth down the grace and favour of the All-Merciful, for education is the indispensable foundation of all human excellence and alloweth man to work his way to the heights of abiding glory. If a child be trained from his infancy, he will, through the loving care of the Holy Gardener, drink in the crystal waters of the spirit and of knowledge, like a young tree amid the rilling brooks. And certainly he will gather to himself the bright rays of the Sun of Truth, and through its light and heat will grow ever fresh and fair in the garden of life."</a><br />
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<a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/SAB/SAB-103.html">"Every child is potentially the light of the world--and at the same time its darkness; wherefore must the question of education be accounted as of primary importance. From his infancy, the child must be nursed at the breast of God's love, and nurtured in the embrace of His knowledge, that he may radiate light, grow in spirituality, be filled with wisdom and learning, and take on the characteristics of the angelic host."</a><br />
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We are not training children for employment. We are not training them to be merely law-abiding citizens. We are unleashing a potential for progressive change unmatched by all the generations before us. At this momentous time, we choose to lower our expectations for education at a great price OR we choose to higher them for unimaginable glory.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-89675111642615333142010-02-22T16:28:00.000-08:002010-02-22T16:28:59.372-08:00Classroom Subject MatterTake a look at your local school system or the closest school. What subjects do they offer? They most likely include a language class or two, arts (if you are lucky), history (most likely not recent and by far not recent world history), mathematics, and various sciences. Where is the part of the curriculum that is not about subject matter, but about becoming a better human being?<br />
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It may be found in slogans or phrases in school literature, on walls, or in school district/school mission or vision statements. Some are clear and concise, while others are not. Here are four examples...(with the school names removed to protect the innocent)...<br />
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"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;">We are committed to creating a culture of success by building the knowledge and skills to ensure college, career, and life readiness for every student.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold;">We Believe...</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><blockquote class="style23" style="font-size: 14px;"><div align="left" class="style12 style4" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">• in public education.<br />
• everyone can learn and achieve.<br />
• each individual has intrinsic worth.<br />
• respect, honesty, self-discipline, and a sense<br />
of fair play are essential to the development<br />
of personal integrity.<br />
• in personal responsibility and accountability.<br />
• in striving to do one's best.<br />
• in the value of a supportive, nurturing family.<br />
• in the power of positive thinking.<br />
• in valuing and utilizing diversity, we can<br />
achieve common goals.<br />
• effective communication is essential.<br />
• a sense of humor contributes to a healthy, balanced way of life.<br />
• it is the responsibility of every individual<br />
to contribute to the betterment of a<br />
global society.<br />
• in the benefit of individual pursuits and the<br />
value of collaborative contributions.<br />
• successful change requires vision, personal<br />
action and a willingness to take risks.<br />
• no failure is fatal . . . no success is final. </div></blockquote><blockquote class="style23" style="font-size: 14px;"><div align="left" class="style12 style4" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">• learning is an essential life-long process.</span>"</span></div></blockquote><br />
"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">It is our vision that all students can learn from a student-centered instructional program which provides a quality educational environment and promotes academic excellence, social responsibility, and emotional well being.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">"</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;">"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">The school's four strategic goals are to:</span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><ol><li>Improve academic achievement of all students, particularly in math and science.</li>
<li>Prepare students to pursue advanced degrees in math and science.</li>
<li>Promote good personal health and healthy life styles.</li>
<li>Increase awareness of careers in health and medical sciences."</li>
</ol></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">These are common examples and I am not presenting them as either good or bad ones. They have in them the hopes and dreams of individuals and groups whose fondest wish, I am sure, is a better education. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I propose, however, that the fundamental basis of our individual, and collective, development is either missing or obscured by such statements. Our fundamental basis of development is virtues - "</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541544">`What is the purpose of our lives?' </a><nobr><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541544">`Abdu'l-Bahá</a></nobr><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541544">.--`To acquire </a><b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541544">virtues</a></b></span><a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/PT/PT-55.html">"</a></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Do the students in your school or school district find that this is something important in school? If not, then where is this a priority? Some contend that the development of virtues is something to be done at home with family or with one's group of worship. By doing so, we create two worlds - one where virtues are given high status and another where they are not. A contradictory message, no? </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Do I propose that religion be taught in public schools? No. Virtues are the core of all religions and even non-religious ethics and morals. We are attracted to them much like gravity pulls us to the ground. Look at this <a href="http://www.virtuesproject.com/virtues.html">list of 52 from The Virtues Project</a> and consider which of these are worthy to develop. Then imagine a classroom (no matter what the subject) where the teacher and students used these words in conversation, especially when they would recognize the virtue being put into action by someone in the classroom. The effect would be to meet and exceed many of the school vision statements concerning how these children will have a positive impact on the world.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I leave you with this to contemplate...</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541552">"</a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541552">The </a><b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541552">virtues</a></b><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1266881541552"> of humanity are many but science is the most noble of them all. The distinction which man enjoys above and beyond the station of the animal is due to this paramount virtue.</a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/FWU/FWU-18.html">"</a></span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">How many students of science consider the practice of it to be a virtue?</span><br />
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</div><div>In a chapter titled, "The Trouble with Geniuses, Part 2" Gladwell introduces the reader to a sociologist named Annette Lareau. She did a study of a group of third graders in which she followed 12 families ("both black and whites and children from both wealthy homes and poor homes"). After following the families at least 20 times, she concluded their were two parenting styles - 'concerted cultivation' by the middle-class parents and 'accomplishment of natural growth' by the poor parents.</div><div><br />
</div><div>'Concerted cultivation' "is an attempt to actively 'foster and assess a child's talents, opinions, and skills.' (Poor parents) see as their responsibility to care for their children but to let them grow and develop on their own. Lareau stresses that one style isn't morally better than the other. The poorer children were, to her mind, often better behaved, less whiny, more creative in making their own time, and had a well-developed sense of independence. But in practical terms, concerted cultivation has enormous advantages. The heavily scheduled middle-class child is exposed to a constantly shifting set of experiences. She learns teamwork and how to cope in highly structured settings. She is taught how to interact comfortably with adults, and to speak up when she needs to." </div><div><br />
</div><div>Gladwell then shares a story of a nine year old boy, Alex, who goes to the doctor's office and engages in a conversation with the doctor. The boy does this based on his mother's encouragement and can "assert himself with people in positions of authority." </div><div><br />
</div><div>"In doing so, he successfully shifts the balance of power away from the adults and toward himself....Alex is being treated with respect. He is seen as special and as a person worthy of adult attention and interest....Alex is not showing off during his checkup. He is behaving much as he does with his parents - he reasons, negotiates, and jokes with equal ease."</div><div><br />
</div><div>In my mind, Alex is demonstrating the virtue of assertiveness. In fact, the earlier part of the chapter provides another story of someone who is intellectually gifted, but, at crucial times in his life, did not assert himself. Gladwell could have titled this chapter 'Assertiveness and Its Consequences'.</div><div><br />
</div><div>This reminded me of my experience while visiting an elementary school in the US. The school served a population that was generally poor and I was astounded by the rigidity of the rules, especially hallway rules. For example, when leaving a classroom, students had to line up, single-file and, depending on which direction they were going, walk single-file along one side or the other of the hallway. I recalled my own experience as a student between classes in the hallway as being controlled chaos. Were the students in this elementary school learning about authority? Were they learning about their relationship with authority? I also asked myself, what were they learning about their own ability to self-discipline?</div><div><br />
</div><div>So, I leave you with this...did your parents use either of the two parenting styles mentioned above? Lastly, how was your school environment structured - what did it teach you about authority and assertiveness?</div><div><br />
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</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-83865255379866466292010-02-17T14:10:00.000-08:002010-02-17T14:10:54.239-08:00SabbaticalDear Long Lost Reader,<br />
I am back. After one year and ten days, consider this my second go round at blogging. I took a leave of absence, unbeknownst to all of you, during my year long work at UCSD. I have since come back to my senses and established my focus back on developing my company Mining Gems and to go deeper in meditating on what is transformative and what isn't. In my hopes to make regular postings, I am taking a lesson from my physical workout routine - start small and develop a pattern over time that engages me and fulfills long-term goals without being overwhelming. So, it is with that sentiment that I begin anew.<br />
Sincerely,<br />
MarkUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-61795424430834489122009-02-07T23:20:00.001-08:002009-02-08T00:00:11.535-08:00Mission/VisionWhat is your mission and vision? Have you ever read mission and vision statements? I find the words powerful. There is a sense of purpose within the sounds of those words. All at once I connect 'vision' to prophecies, tribal rituals made to bring a mystical connection to one's self, the ability to have keen insight for the remedies for illnesses, and simply an imagination of what can be. The word 'mission' makes me think of a focused self-discipline that individuals can have when all energies are set towards to one goal. Then I think of what is my mission and vision and what is the mission and vision of an education in light of the Baha'i writings.<div><br /></div><div>Perhaps, it is simply to develop the virtues within such that we may promote, by actions, an ever-advancing worldwide civilization? But I am getting ahead of myself. What is a mission? What is a vision?</div><div><br /></div><div>Simply put, a vision is what an individual or group sees what it wants to become or what it wishes to make a reality in the future. The mission is what that individual or group does on a daily basis to make the vision real. These will change and develop over time, as the individual or group reflects on the current state of reality as related to its vision and how the individual or group is altered in the pursuit of that vision.</div><div><br /></div><div>It is a powerful tool though, to lay before ones eyes the words that define his/her dreams.</div><div>If the Baha'i faith is to bring us together such that the banner of the 'oneness of humanity' and 'unity in diversity' are to be default truths of our common experience, then what mission statements help us reach them?</div><div><br /></div><div>I have heard others state that the core of education is the traditional subjects - reading, writing, and math. No, these are tools by which we can express our true selves - virtues. An education that nurtures virtuous words and deeds, lifts each of us to a higher station that rids us of this earthly plain and makes all things new. </div><div><br /></div><div>"What is the purpose of our lives?" "To acquire virtues...We come from the earth...we step into the world of humanity and gifted with reason, the power of invention, and the forces of the spirit." - Abdu'l-Baha (<a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/PT/PT-55.html">From </a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/PT/PT-55.html">Paris Talks</a></span>)</div><div><br /></div><div>From the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-8.html">Tablet of Wisdom</a> </span>(Lawh-i-Hikmat)...</div><div>"O peoples of the world! Forsake all evil, hold fast that which is good. Strive to be shining examples unto all mankind, and true reminders of the virtues of God amidst men. He that riseth to serve My Cause should manifest My wisdom, and bend every effort to banish ignorance from the earth. Be united in counsel, be one in thought. Let each morn be better than its eve and each morrow richer than its yesterday. Man's merit lieth in service and virtue and not in pageantry of wealth and riches. Take heed that your words be purged from idle fancies and worldly desires and your deeds be cleansed from craftiness and suspicion. Dissipate not the wealth of your precious lives in the pursuit of evil and corrupt affection, nor let your endeavours be spent in promoting your personal interest. Be generous in your days of plenty, and be patient in the hour of loss. Adversity is followed by success and rejoicings follow woe. Guard against idleness and sloth, and cling unto that which profiteth mankind, whether young or old, whether high or low. Beware lest ye sow tares of dissension among men or plant thorns of doubt in pure and radiant hearts."</div><div><br /></div><div>A lot of things to reflect on, eh? Now, it's time for me to reflect on how this can be put into practice in the field of education. What mission statements come from this? What will our reality be, if these loving commands were strived for by all? What vision do you have of the future? Lastly, check your local schools and ask them what their mission and vision statements are. Do they compliment the Baha'i vision and mission of transforming this earthly plain into one where virtues are the core? If so, are the daily deeds matching those words?</div><div><br /></div><div>I would love to see some mission/vision statements from schools around the world (with links to the school's website). Could you, would you share your school's?</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-7095730027003213212008-12-07T13:03:00.000-08:002008-12-07T15:29:58.339-08:00Anyone for Joyful Learning?<blockquote></blockquote>Dear Friends,<div>I have been contemplating three topics over the past (nearly) two months. One is in regards to children's classes and primary school in general. Do you recall how you felt in a children's class and primary school when you were of tender years? Did you find it to be a place of joy, discovery, and wonder? If not, then - why not?</div><div><br /></div><div>I have heard the use of two words that give me pause about any curriculum that weighs them more heavily than the concept of 'joy'. Those two words are - '<a href="http://www.answers.com/substantive">substantive</a>' and '<a href="http://www.answers.com/rigor">rigor</a>'.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Substantive</span> -</div><div>What portion of a curriculum is substantive for learning?</div><div>Do you suppose that memorizing facts is the substantive portion and all else is useless?</div><div>Recall that one of my previous articles mentioned memorization as a powerful technique. Well, if I didn't make it clear in that article, then let me do so here. Memorization is not the only technique to be used and should not be used to the exclusion of the creative arts, especially with children. In fact, using the arts is substantive [<a href="http://www.dana.org/news/brainwork/detail.aspx?id=11604">read this article</a>] and improves math, reading ability, and reasoning ability, among other intellectual and emotional areas of growth (including memorizing - count the number of lyrics you know).</div><div><br /></div><div>I mention the creative arts because I have met people who see education through the eyes of the 19th century. Education to them is substantive only if the classroom is orderly and the students listen attentively to the teacher. Also, in this view, the teacher is the one speaking and the students merely copy his/her authoritative words.</div><div><br /></div><div>Even recreational play is useful for both personal and social growth. [Consider reading the following articles related to the benefits of playtime - <a href="http://www.tes.co.uk/article.aspx?storycode=342657">(1)</a>, <a href="http://www.washington.edu/alumni/columns/june07/content/view/76/38/">(2).]</a></div><div><br /></div><div>When play takes on the form of organized play (creative arts), it can be the most effective method of teaching. <br /></div><div><br /></div><div>From Abdu'l-Baha, "<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">The art of music is divine and effective. It is the food of the soul and spirit. Through the power and charm of music the spirit of man is uplifted. It has wonderful sway and effect in the hearts of children, for their hearts are pure, and melodies have great influence in them. The latent talents with which the hearts of these children are endowed will find expression through the medium of music. Therefore, you must exert yourselves to make them proficient; teach them to sing with excellence and effect. It is incumbent upon each child to know something of music, for without knowledge of this art the melodies of instrument and voice cannot be rightly enjoyed </span>(The Promulgation of Universal Peace, p.52)."</div><div><br /></div><div>Also from Abdu'l-Baha, "<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">The drama is of utmost importance. It has been a great educational power in the past; it will be so again</span> (Abdu'l-Baha in London, p.93)."</div><div><br /></div><div>Imagine then a classroom where music and drama, in addition to other forms of artistic expression, are used regularly to form a truly substantive curriculum.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Rigor</span></div><div>The term rigor has been used in public education quite often and I have been told of two definitions. I had once heard that it meant a curriculum that included depth of knowledge in various subjects. Today, it most often implies a curriculum that has the essential elements and facts necessary for a more complete understanding of a subject (i.e. the teacher has covered all of the details in a subject and not left anything important out). The problem with today's use of the term is that, like most educational concepts, it gets used to justify outdated ways of teaching. What do I mean by outdated? All ways of teaching that have been shown to have either a detrimental effect or no effect on improving learning.</div><div><br /></div><div>Definitions of rigor include:</div><div>1. strictness or severity, as in temperment, action, or judgment.</div><div>2. a harsh or trying circumstance; hardship.</div><div>3. a harsh or cruel act.</div><div><br /></div><div>Which definition of rigor seems to apply to education? Here is an article to read concerning rigor and joy by Alfie Kohn - <a href="http://www.alfiekohn.org/teaching/edweek/feelbad.htm">click here</a></div><div><br /></div><div>I ask you to look through the Baha'i Scripture and comment on rigor and joy in reference to education. I'll do the same and look to add to this posting in the near future.</div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-80048331118134283912008-10-12T11:29:00.001-07:002008-10-12T15:50:24.382-07:00Virtuous EducationWho are you? Are you good? Are you bad? Is what you are something that is unchanging?<div>Think back to when you were a child and imagine that your conversations were filled with the following words - assertiveness, caring, cleanliness, commitment, compassion, confidence, consideration, cooperation, courage, courtesy, creativity, detachment, determination, diligence, enthusiasm, excellence, flexibility, forgiveness, friendliness, generosity, gentleness, helpfulness, honesty, honor, humility, idealism, integrity, joyfulness, justice, kindness, love, loyalty, moderation, modesty, orderliness, patience, peacefulness, perseverance, purposefulness, reliability, respect, responsibility, self-discipline, service, tact, thankfulness, tolerance, trust, trustworthiness, truthfulness, understanding, and unity.</div><div><br /></div><div>Now, imagine if those words were always brought up in a loving and positive manner (i.e. not shaming). Then add this...assume that everyone has those virtues within and our task in life is to develop them. From the tablet <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-5.html">Kalimat-i-Firdawsiyyih</a> (Words of Paradise) reflect on the following...</div><div>"Say: Honesty, virtue, wisdom, and a saintly character redound to the exaltation of man, while dishonesty, imposture, ignorance and hipocrisy lead to his abasement. By My life! Man's distinction lieth not in ornaments or wealth, but rather in virtuous behavior and true understanding." - Baha'u'llah<br /></div><div><br /><div>Then from the <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-6.html">Lawh-i-Dunya</a> (Tablet of the World)...</div><div>"O people of God! I admonish you to observe courtesy, for above all else it is the prince of virtues. Well is it with him who is illumined with the light of courtesy and is attired with the vesture of uprightness. Whoso is endued with courtesy hath indeed attained a sublime station." - Baha'u'llah</div><div><br /></div><div>When considering the potential within, we most often underestimate its ability to develop and its final influence and power to transform the world. There are many writings from various faiths that focus on virtues. I would think that most, if not all, people would find that individually developing the 52 virtues listed above can fundamentally change life as we know it. Of course, these virtues should be balanced in their expression and a lifetime of virtues development is more realistic than pretending that you add them one by one like stones in a jar. No one person extols these virtues perfectly, but to recognize them and encourage their development is <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/AHW/HW-23.html">noble.</a> Does your school encourage development of virtues?</div><div><br /></div><div>In schools, virtues development is in the form of character education. I am only familiar with <a href="http://www.virtuesproject.com/">The Virtues Project</a> (being a recently certified facilitator) and am convinced that The Virtues Project as applied to schools would create an environment that would allow children to flourish academically, emotionally, and socially. Take a look at Boston University's FAQ on character education here - <a href="http://www.bu.edu/sed/caec/files/FAQ.htm">FAQ</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>Personally, I feel that any virtues development program within a school must be threaded throughout the curriculum and made explicit in all classes. Virtues do not begin and end at the door of one classroom. I would love to hear from you about any programs that are being used at your community's schools. What are they? How are they implemented? What is their effect?</div><div><br /></div><div>Lastly, please take a look at the 52 virtues listed above once more and consider how these are exemplified in your workplace, your home, and your daily interactions with others.</div><div><br /></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-31913487455010935532008-09-05T11:08:00.000-07:002008-09-06T13:39:18.353-07:00Intelligence and Reality<div>There is much to read on the topic of intelligence as it relates to education. Individuals are measured by many tests - to derive their IQ, EQ, and many other quotients we deem important for learning. Is intelligence a pure number? Is there an algorithm that defines one's inner workings of the mind? How does intelligence impact reality? Here is the beginning of a much larger thought...</div><div><br /></div>As I perused my graduate school books on the subject, I found thirteen definitions of intelligence ("Psychological Testing - History, Principles, and Applications (2nd Ed.)" by Robert J. Gregory p.152-3, 1996). I know, it is an old edition, but that's what I have. Before reading the following definitions, write down on a blank sheet of paper your definition of intelligence. (...done?)<div><br /></div><div>Okay, now take a deep breath and read the definitions</div><div>from the aforementioned book and compare them to yours...</div><div><br /></div><div>"Spearman (1904, 1923): a general ability which involves mainly the education of relations and correlates.</div><div><br /></div><div>Binet and Simon (1905): the ability to judge well, to understand well, to reason well.</div><div><br /></div><div>Terman (1916): the capacity to form concepts and to grasp their significance.</div><div><br /></div><div>Pintner (1921): the ability of the individual to adapt adequately to relatively new situations in life.</div><div><br /></div><div>Thorndike (1921): the power of good responses from the point of view of truth or fact.</div><div><br /></div><div>Thurstone (1921): the capacity to inhibit instinctive adjustments, flexibly imagine different responses, and realize modified instinctive adjustments into overt behavior.</div><div><br /></div><div>Wechsler (1939): the aggregate or global capacity of the individual to act purposefully, to think rationally, and to deal effectively with the environment.</div><div><br /></div><div>Humphreys (1971): the entire repertoire of acquired skills, knowledge, learning sets, and generalization tendencies considered intellectual in nature that are available at any one period of time.</div><div><br /></div><div>Piaget (1972): a generic term to indicate the superior forms of organization or equilibrium of cognitive structuring used for adaptation to the physical and social environment.</div><div><br /></div><div>Sternberg (1985a, 1986): the mental capacity to automatize information processing and to emit contextually appropriate behavior in response to novelty; intelligence also includes metacomponents, performance components, and knowledge-acquisition components.</div><div><br /></div><div>Eysenck (1986): error-free transmission of information through the cortex.</div><div><br /></div><div>Gardner (1986): the ability or skill to solve problems or to fashion products which are valued within one or more cultural settings.</div><div><br /></div><div>Ceci (1994): multiple innate abilities which serve as a range of possibilities; these abilities develop (or fail to develop, or develop and later atrophy) depending upon motivation and exposure to relevant educational experiences."</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>These are but a few definitions of intelligence. The concept of intelligence has been framed using other words as well, such as emotional, social, multiple, and artificial. My current preferred definition of intelligence is one that includes all aspects of one's ability to <a href="http://www.answers.com/comprehend">comprehend</a> a reality and create new meaning. 'Meaning' itself has multiple definitions - <a href="http://www.answers.com/meaning&r=67">1</a>, <a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/meaning-non-linguistic">2</a>, and <a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/musical-meaning">3. </a>Take a look at each linked set of definitions of 'meaning'.</div><div><br /></div><div>An inventor is typically referred to as intelligent. Inventors comprehend the properties of items in reality - their physical meanings - and combine these various items to create new meaning, new reality. New properties emerge from combinations that never existed before. It is astounding to think that we have the ability to transform the physical reality before us into a new reality. Remove certain items from your current reality - the computer in front of you, the phone (most likely a mobile phone) nearby, the variety of machines that lessens your daily work, indoor plumbing, and even the materials with which the clothes, fabrics, furniture, and walls that surround you and what is your reality without them? If you had no contact with such items before and you were provided them all at once, then would you be <a href="http://www.answers.com/dumbfounded">dumbfounded</a>? Would you be less intelligent for not comprehending them? Would the world be anew?</div><div><br /></div><div>Nature does this all of the time on a geologic time scale, but we do also have examples of items transforming with whole new characteristics. What is an acorn? What is an oak tree? Is an acorn not an oak? What is the difference between them - time? potential? Add intelligence to this capacity of nature to transform and we have the ability to transform reality itself.</div><div><br /></div><div>"The power of the Holy Spirit, enlightening man's <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">intelligence</span>, has enabled him to discover means of bending many natural laws to his will. He flies through the air, floats on the sea, and even moves under the waters. All this proves how man's <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">intelligence</span> has been enabled to free him from the limitations of nature, and to solve many of her mysteries. Man, to a certain extent, has broken the chains of matter. The Holy Spirit will give to man greater powers than these, if only he will strive after the things of the spirit and endeavour to attune his heart to the Divine infinite love." - Abdu'l-Baha, <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/PT/PT-9.html">Paris Talks, pp. 37-38</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>We have the intelligence to break 'the chains of matter' (with the clarification - 'to a certain extent'). We understand quite a lot about the development of an acorn to a mighty oak. But, what are these 'greater powers than these' that are gained once we 'attune (our) heart(s) to the Divine infinite love'?</div><div><br /></div><div>"The Heavenly Father gave the priceless gift of <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">intelligence</span> to man so that he might become a spiritual light, piercing the darkness of materiality, and bringing goodness and truth into the world." - Abdu'l-Baha, <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/PT/PT-36.html">Paris Talks, pp. 113-114</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>Intelligence is not merely for material transformations, it should be used to bring 'goodness and truth into the world.' So, when I write that intelligence "includes all aspects of one's ability to comprehend a reality and create new meaning" - it includes spiritual transformations.</div><div><br /></div><div>"Progress is the expression of spirit in the world of matter. The <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">intelligence</span> of man, his reasoning powers, his knowledge, his scientific achievements, all these being manifestations of the spirit, partake of the inevitable law of spiritual progress and are, therefore, of necessity, immortal. My hope for you is that you will progress in the world of the spirit, as well as in the world of matter; that your <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">intelligence</span> will develop, your knowledge will augment, and your understanding be widened." - Abdu'l-Baha, <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/PT/PT-29.html">Paris Talks, pp. 90</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>Intelligence and its application is a manifestation 'of the spirit' in our reality. Even by the act of writing, it is "in itself, a sign of the writer's soul and <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">intelligence</span>." (ibid, pp. 91-92).</div><div><br /></div><div>If we are to use the concept of intelligence to inform educational practices though, we must find a way to measure it, no? How does one measure intelligence? Can it be demonstrated by a student that is given a task to devise an answer to a mathematical problem? Can it be demonstrated by a student when handling a dispute between classmates? Can it be demonstrated by a student that provides help to others? Can it be demonstrated by a student who collaborates well and uses creativity and critical thinking to organize information in a new way? </div><div><br /></div><div>The data we collect from such demonstrations will be dependent on our creativity in assessment. We collect data that is informative and leave the rest behind. Therefore, not all data is collected. So, if intelligence can be demonstrated in so many different ways, then to which data do we give priority? Being self-aware that there is a limitation in this prioritization, then we must choose wisely. A multiple choice exam for intelligence provides one data point, a portfolio another, a presentation another, a behavioral rubric another, etc. But the prioritization will dictate the measures we record and therefore the category of intelligence in which we place the student. We must be mindful of how that categorization of intelligence changes the ways we interact with a student. Imagine if you label a student as highly intelligent and another as having low intelligence. Do you challenge them differently? If so, how?</div><div><br /></div><div>Our <a href="http://www.nwrel.org/scpd/sirs/4/cu7.html">expectations, as research shows</a>, will be a force in determining the student's intellectual growth. Educational practices impact our reality and the future reality of humanity - one person at a time.</div><div><br /></div><div>I wonder...what are those "greater powers than these" mentioned earlier? Perhaps they are something more than the material reality alone. Perhaps, they are an illumination based on comprehension of the material world in light of virtuous teachings. For example, imagine a world in which universal education promotes unity in diversity and oneness of humanity intertwined with the arts and sciences - what new realities would we create?</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-77163455256853153412008-09-02T15:27:00.000-07:002008-09-06T13:29:40.403-07:00ABS TangentsDear Friends,<div>Sorry to be so distant this past month. I will post a few times this month in order to stir the blogging pot a bit more evenly. </div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">Tangent 1: Practical Application</span></div><div>I attended the most recent <a href="http://www.bahai-studies.ca/conferences.php">Association of Baha'i Studies meeting here in San Diego</a> this past weekend and it was a good experience. There were many Baha'is contemplating an assortment of ideas in relation to social cohesion. Out of all of the talks, I believe that the presentation that spoke most to me about applying religious principles in a practical manner was from the CEO of Idea Connections Systems, Inc., Robert Rosenfeld. Specifically, the Mosaic Partnerships Program stems from a simple idea (relatively) - foster friendship and trust among people in diverse race/ethnic backgrounds and organizational transformation can occur for the betterment of the organization and society. You can read more about the program itself here -<a href="http://www.innovating.com/ser_mosaic.html"> Mosaic Partnerships</a>. (I hope that Bob doesn't mind the oversimplification of his program in my blog.)</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">Tangent 2: Invoking Scripture Academically</span></div><div>Faculty from diverse backgrounds met at the ABS meeting as well. It seems that there is a challenge to integrate one's faith with one's work. Are you an academic? Are you a faculty member, graduate student, undergraduate, etc.? Would it make sense to invoke scripture when considering how best to conduct biochemistry research? Or does invoking scripture make sense only in the humanities and arts?</div><div><br /></div><div>Remember the <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-10.html">Lawh-i-Maqsud (Tablet of Maqsud)</a>? The one that contains the quote "Regard man as a mine..." (see first post, if not). Well, the last part of it that I quoted was,</div><div>"The Great Being saith: The learned of the day must direct the people to acquire those branches of knowledge which are of use, that both the learned themselves and the generality of mankind may derive benefits therefrom. Such academic pursuits as begin and end in words alone have never been and will never be of any worth." So, doe that mean that basic scientific research is pointless? Can you think of areas of academic pursuit that may fall into the 'never be of any worth' category?</div><div><br /></div><div>In another passage, Baha'u'llah states in <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-2.html">Bisharat (Glad Tidings)</a>, "The eleventh Glad Tidings - It is permissible to study sciences and arts, but such sciences as are useful and would redound to the progress and advancement of the people. Thus hath it been decreed by Him Who is the Ordainer, the All-Wise."</div><div><br /></div><div>Consider the following example, someone asks you if it is important to study bacteriophage (viruses that infect bacteria) and how bacteria respond to them. At first, it may seem to be an unimportant area of study, since bacteriophage infect bacteria one may think of them not having an impact on human health - so why study them? Well, they have been studied and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Restriction_enzyme">restriction enzymes</a> were discovered. The molecular 'scissors' that are used to cut DNA in the research lab for a variety of uses (the least of which is to be used in a forensics lab on CSI).</div><div><br /></div><div>So, I ask you, as I asked my friends at the ABS meeting - in your area of academic interest (or study) - what counts as service? Does it include invoking scripture? Provide ten ways that you can provide service to society through your profession.</div><div><br /></div><div>Time for me to go workout and contemplate the same.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-8600482840239984652008-07-29T15:00:00.000-07:002008-09-06T13:27:23.789-07:00Memorization and UnderstandingHow have you come to learn things in your life? Recall the earliest example of learning at home, at school, etc. in your experience. To <a href="http://www.answers.com/memorize&r=67">memorize</a> something simply means to "commit something to memory" and <a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/memory-psych-in-encyclopedia">memory</a> gives us the beautiful, and if you think about it - somewhat strange, capacity to not forget events, experiences, and bits of information. What kinds of things enhance your ability to remember? Your senses are a strong component of memory and, for many of us, visual cues burn information/experiences into our mind to the point that you can visualize it all over again many years later.<div><br /></div><div>How great is your capacity to memorize? Individuals have memorized the <a href="http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/quran/">Quran</a>, the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bible">Bible</a>, the <a href="http://bahai-library.com/writings/bahaullah/hw/">Hidden Words</a>, among other sacred texts. The capacity to memorize is amazing, especially among youth. In the Baha'i writings, we are encouraged to memorize prayers and passages from the Sacred text for a multitude of reasons. In '<a href="http://bahai-library.com/index.php5?file=compilation_bahai_education">A Compilation on Baha'i Education</a>', it is mentioned that "The method of instruction which ye have established, beginning with proofs of the existence of God and the oneness of God, the mission of the Prophets and Messengers and Their teachings, and the wonders of the universe, is highly suitable. Keep on with this. It is certain that the confirmations of God will attend you. It is also <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">highly praiseworthy to memorize</span></span></span> the Tablets, divine verses and sacred traditions. Ye will surely exert every effort in teaching, and in furthering understanding (emphasis added)." Not only is it suggested that whole sections of Sacred verse be memorized, in another section it states that "...there is no objection to children who are as yet unable to memorize a whole prayer learning certain sentences only."</div><div><br /></div><div>Baha'u'allah revealed in a <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-11.html">Tablet</a>, "The sanctified souls should ponder and meditate in their hearts regarding the methods of teaching. From the texts of the wondrous, heavenly Scriptures they should <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">memorize</span></span></span> phrases and passages bearing on various instances, so that in the course of their speech they may recite divine verses whenever the occasion demandeth it, inasmuch as these holy verses are the most potent elixir, the greatest and mightiest talisman. So potent is their influence that the hearer will have no cause for vacillation. I swear by My life! This Revelation is endowed with such a power that it will act as the lodestone for all nations and kindreds of the earth." It should be noted that Baha'u'llah is referring to teaching the Baha'i Faith and He is not explicitly making a statement on pedagogy or educational philosophy as it may apply to educational institutions.</div><div><br /></div><div>However, memorizing the Baha'i writings for the purpose of transforming this world, through action that reflects those writings, provides "the greatest and mightiest talisman." It is part of the process of attracting ("lodestone") "all nations and kindreds of the earth." So, perhaps, memorization is important enough to be a part of the educational process in general and the choice of what to memorize is most important.</div><div><br /></div><div>In relation to the classroom or any educational setting, memorization can be considered a tool to enhance, not replace, understanding. How many of us have committed to memory something that has been less than meaningful? How many of us have retained by memory something for an exam (which implies that at least someone else thinks it is meaningful) and then soon forgotten it?</div><div><br /></div><div>In educational literature you may read the phrase '<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rote_learning">rote memorization</a>' or 'rote learning' and it can often be found juxtaposed with '<a href="http://scied.gsu.edu/Hassard/mos/2.10.html">meaningful learning</a>'. By adding the word rote, it clarifies that the memorization process to be used is one without contemplation, without connection in one's mind. Is this the type of memorization that is prescribed in the Baha'i writings? </div><div><br /></div><div>In schools, we utilize this strength, especially in primary level education, though we tend to overuse it in the secondary and post-secondary levels. I recently was involved in a discussion that revealed to me that the other person believed that the act of memorizing anything is good for the development of "learning how to learn". It reminded me of a long held belief that the mind is much like a muscle and can be improved by repetition. To those of you who subscribe to using sudoku, crossword puzzles, and the like, I would agree that there is a measure of usefulness to those (other than amusement), but caution anyone who holds the "mind equals muscle" as a central teaching philosophy.</div><div><br /></div><div>In fact, rote memorization is a common strategy for learning in many schools. I submit to you this article -<a href="http://www.wmich.edu/coe/tles/urban/Haberman.pdf"> "The Pedagogy of Poverty Versus Good Teaching" </a>by Martin Haberman. The pedagogy of poverty is the general educational practice that has been reinforced in urban schools. I believe that rote memorization is central to this pedagogy, since it fits with the teacher-centered (dominated) classroom that provides knowledge as opposed to providing opportunities to be empowered by learning.</div><div><br /></div><div>To close, memorization is powerful and, when used wisely to build a meaningful framework, it can enhance understanding. However, understanding comes with time, experience, and collaborative environments. Think of all of your experiences in <a href="http://www.ruhiresources.org/">Baha'i Study Circles</a> (Ruhi courses). We memorize passages and then go beyond this and understand through collaboration in loving and supportive environments. It is a joy to be a part of them. Wouldn't we want our children to experience such joy when learning other things as well?</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-27974506540816977892008-07-13T21:16:00.001-07:002008-09-06T13:28:14.604-07:00Language, Learning, and LodestonesI love language, though I am not a linguistic professional. I love the arts - especially film and theater, in which I have performed. Language used by a character reveals much about them - their moral compass, passions, strengths, weaknesses, perception of reality, etc. Sometimes the language can be crude and downright ugly. <div><br /></div><div>The strength of language can be understood in this passage, "Beware lest ye shed the blood of any one. Unsheathe the sword of your tongue from the scabbard of utterance, for therewith ye can conquer the citadels of men's hearts." (Baha'u'llah, '<a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/ESW/ESW-1.html">Epistle to the Son of the Wolf'</a>) </div><div><br /></div><div>So powerful is a word that it is equated with a sword. This is not the first use of such language. Take a look at <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+12:18">Proverbs 12:18</a> in the Bible - "Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing."</div><div><br /></div><div>What kinds of words are 'reckless', when teaching? Can a wise person use strong language?</div><div><br /></div><div>When I performed on stage and used certain curses that fit the character, I was not disturbed by the words. When I watched "Freedom Writers", "25th Hour", and "Goodwill Hunting" (to name a few) for the first time, the strong language fit the characters and didn't shock me. Do I use this language in my everyday vernacular? No. Do I think that it is appropriate to spew such language for effect? No. I have watched films and heard everyday people use strong language and, at times, it just doesn't make sense. But, when a person is deeply in pain (physically or mentally) - a primal scream seems logical. You may ask - what does this have to do with learning? Well, a teacher was recently suspended for 18 months for using the book "Freedom Writers' Journal" in class - even after getting 149 approvals out of 150 from parents. You can read the details here - <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-lagravenese/emfreedomem-banned_b_110299.html">LINK</a> <div><br /></div><div>Now, I don't claim to know intimate details of the situation and won't claim who is in the right, but the story is one for us to consider how language can be used to engage students. I tend, rightly or wrongly, when speaking with someone to begin to blend my accent with theirs. I believe this is a subconscious way to fit in and empathize. It doesn't mean that I use the same strong language - but mimicking another (of which I became conscious of it after college) has an effect of opening up the conversation and walls begin to fall (perhaps conquering those citadels?), such that a connection can be made. Isn't this what some, if not all, teachers do? They connect (not to be confused with becoming like another student) and are better able to find those 'gems within' or help the student discover those 'gems within' himself/herself.</div><div><br /></div><div>After reading the link above, you know that the book that the teacher shared with her students was filled with strong language. It also demonstrates individual transformation and empowerment over the course of the book. The transformation and empowerment was of individual students in similar life situations as those who were reading it. The characters in the journal (real students and real journal entries in a class from L.A.) were models of transformation. </div><div><br /></div><div>How does the following quote fit with the aforementioned situation?</div><div><br /></div><div>"A kindly tongue is the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">lodestone</span> of the hearts of men. It is the bread of the spirit, it clotheth the words with meaning, it is the fountain of the light of wisdom and understanding" - Baha'u'llah, from '<a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/ESW/ESW-1.html">Epistle to the Son of the Wolf</a>'</div><div><br /></div><div>As Baha'is we are to have seemly conduct. In the <a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-13.html">Book of the Covenant</a>, Baha'u'llah states, </div><div>"Verily I say, the tongue is for mentioning what is good, defile it not with unseemly talk. God hath forgiven what is past. Henceforward everyone should utter that which is meet and seemly, and should refrain from slander, abuse and whatever causeth sadness in men." In the same book He states, "We exhort you to fear God, to perform praiseworthy deeds and to do that which is meet and seemly and serveth to exalt your station."</div><div><br /></div><div>Can strong language, when understood in context, be used to exalt one's station? Can it be used to transform lives, to connect one's soul to one's true destiny and shake the dust from these shells called 'selves'? Watch Anis Mojgani (two-time national and recent world slam poetry champion who is also Baha'i) perform his poem <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQ-Ox5uH3FM">'Shake the Dust'</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>One of the most powerful scenes in the film 'Freedom Writers', is one that includes a student reading his journal entry recalling his summer. He is the boy who begins with "This summer was the worst summer of my short 14 years of life..." - <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPoNNVXAEMo">LINK</a></div><div>When watching the film, I thought that this had to be rewritten to increase the drama and make the audience cry. Well, apparently it was lifted directly from a student's journal (the director stated as such). These students were transformed and empowered - what more do we want?</div><div><br /></div><div>I can see many tangents from this topic - the use of language to control, language as a political or power play, language as a divisive tool. I leave you to take it where it may go in the comments.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3176427415734832833.post-27495568662213613982008-07-03T16:18:00.001-07:002008-09-06T13:28:58.168-07:00Regard Man as a MineHow many times have you seen the following quote used in relation to education?<div><br /></div><div><a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-10.html">"Regard man as a mine rich in gems of inestimable value. Education can, alone, cause it to reveal its treasures, and enable mankind to benefit therefrom." - Baha'u'llah</a></div><div><br /></div><div>Let's look at it in two ways..."as is" and "in context".</div><div><br /></div><div>AS IS</div><div><br /></div><div>Well, I have not only seen it used many times, but use it as a foundational statement for my company. In regards to my educational philosophy, I make meaning of this statement in light of current <a href="http://www.exploratorium.edu/ifi/resources/constructivistlearning.html">constructivist</a>, learner-centered concepts of education. The first line tells me that an educator shouldn't consider herself as providing gems of knowledge to a student (as if the student is a blank slate), but rather should approach the student as filled with unknown potentials. These unknown potentials could include knowledge of topics/subjects, understandings of processes, and spiritual qualities such as empathy, humility, and patience (I can expand on these in another blog as critical-thinking qualities as well).</div><div>If the educator wishes to improve learning, then she must know as much about these unknown potentials as possible. Many educators today are investigating and learning about the importance about identifying <a href="http://www.nap.edu/readingroom/books/str/4.html">student's misconceptions</a>/preconceptions. There is much to be gained in regards to effective teaching when one first learns what the student knows. But the quote is more meaningful than identifying knowledge. It helps to remind me that the student before me is not static and has latent transformative (both individual and societal) power within them. This makes me, as an educator, humble and more collaborative with the student, as opposed to talking down or at him.</div><div><br /></div><div>The second line in the aforementioned quote, reminds me that this complex process called education is what allows the untapped potential to be identified and then expressed for the benefit of humanity. What?! Does that mean that education is NOT a process that creates individuals in a cookie-cutter fashion with knowledge for the sake of a good job or participation in democracy or academic enlightenment? Well, it surely means to me that the over-arching goal of education is the betterment of humanity - so we cannot use education for mere employment purposes. How do you interpret the second line?</div><div><br /></div><div>IN CONTEXT</div><div><br /></div><div>Click the quote above (or link at the end of this sentence) and you'll be sent to a useful search engine for Baha'i text and an original tablet that contains the quote (<a href="http://www.ibiblio.org/Bahai/Texts/EN/TB/TB-10.html">Lawh-i-Maqsud, Tablet of Maqsud</a>). Just prior to the quote is the following...</div><div><br /></div><div>"Man is the supreme Talisman. Lack of a proper education hath, however, deprived him of that which he doth inherently possess. Through a word proceeding out of the mouth of God he was called into being; by one word more he was guided to recognize the Source of his education; by yet another word his station and destiny were safeguarded."</div><div><br /></div><div>The word '<a href="http://www.answers.com/talisman&r=67">talisman</a>' is defined as 'something that confers on its bearer supernatural powers'. What might that mean? Well, the words that follow the quote may help. Here are the immediate words following the quote and selected sentences, in order, from the rest of the tablet. (By the way, you may have noticed that the quotes use masculine forms when referring to individuals - he, his. That is simply due to the translation from the original language to English - in my humble understanding. I choose to mix and match in my writing, since English has no useful neutral term.)</div><div><br /></div><div>"If any man were to meditate on that which the Scriptures, sent down from the heaven of God's holy Will, have revealed, he would readily recognize that their purpose is that all men shall be regarded as one soul, so that the seal bearing the words 'The Kingdom shall be God's' may be stamped on every heart, and the light of Divine bounty, of grace, and mercy may envelop all mankind."</div><div><br /></div><div>Oneness of humanity becomes a primary purpose of education. This is in the light of scripture, but, if one acknowledges that all knowledge is linked and compartmentalization of knowledge into subjects (such as biology, chemistry, etc.) is a useful, but artificial, separation of Truth, then the primary purpose of all education is oneness of humanity. What does the phrase 'oneness of humanity' mean to you?</div><div><br /></div><div>Later (paragraph 6) it is stated...</div><div>"The Great Being saith: O well-beloved ones! The tabernacle of unity hath been raised; regard ye not one another as strangers. Ye are the fruits of one tree, and the leaves of one branch. We cherish the hope that the light of justice may shine upon the world and sanctify it from tyranny."</div><div><br /></div><div>Unity (not uniformity) and the oneness of humanity are inextricably linked concepts. Are they the same? I must consider these for another time, but it is interesting to note that in a tablet that contains the aforementioned quote about education has both. What does it mean, if anything, for how schools are organized?</div><div><br /></div><div>In paragraph 13, it is stated...</div><div>"The Great Being saith: Blessed and happy is he that ariseth to promote the best interests of the peoples and kindreds of the earth."</div><div><br /></div><div>This reinforces the framework in which education is to be used. Students should have a grander perspective of their place and function in society.</div><div><br /></div><div>And most interesting (paragraphs 17 and 18)...</div><div>"At the outset of every endeavour, it is incumbent to look to the end of it. Of all the arts and sciences, set the children to studying those which will result in advantage to man, will ensure his progress and elevate his rank. Thus the noisome odours of lawlessness will be dispelled, and thus through the high endeavours of the nation's leaders, all will live cradled, secure and in peace.</div><div><br /></div><div>The Great Being saith: The learned of the day must direct the people to acquire those branches of knowledge which are of use, that both the learned themselves and the generality of mankind may derive benefits therefrom. Such academic pursuits as begin and end in words alone have never been and will never be of any worth."</div><div><br /></div><div>So, education is not an end, it is a means to an end. It is the individual's responsibility to have the greater good in mind when pursuing knowledge and that pursuit should lead to action. Well, I must go now and tend to my non-virtual world. I hope to meditate on these words and provide a follow-up that is more of my own thoughts as well. Take care.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4